Introduction
I believe we deserve more conversation around the nature of gender as a social construct. It seems to me that many are aware that it is one, but might not always be hyperaware of the implications of this. Plenty of conversation is being had, and I only want to continue it. But there are narratives pushed especially by white trans people that revert back to gender essentialist thought, despite the fact that we understand gender essentialism is nonsense, and those pushing these narratives would agree.
I’ll begin by talking about language. The biggest instance of what I’m describing is right there in the language we are accustomed to using.
If someone is trans, we have ways we like to talk about this. No longer do we say “transsexual”, generally speaking – not about other people without their consent (this should be a norm for all terminology including “transgender”, of course, and broadly speaking, it isn’t).
Nor do we say “transvestite”, generally speaking. People still use this terms, but in general feminist discourse, many seem to have agreed that the terms can be outdated, misleading, vague, or just incorrect. No longer do we say “an x trapped in a y’s body”, or at least, this narrative is very recognized as outdated and transphobic unless self-described, in which case there can still be the hanging implication that this gender essentialism is how the beholder views others.
So why then, do many of us believe still in neurosexism; the debunked theory that there are “male” and “female” brains, and that binary trans people are just one brain in a different body? For more information on neurosexism, I recommend Lise Eliot’s piece titled, “Neurosexism: the myth that men and women have different brains”. Pathologizing transness is not necessary. Recognizing that gender and sex are social constructs is enough to see that trans people are who they say they are.
Gender and Sex
Gender is not hinged around sex, I’d argue, rather, that biological sex, as a system of categorization, is the gendering of body parts that otherwise were simply just anatomy. Chromosomes, hormones, genitalia, secondary sex characteristics, these things exist, but “maleness” and “femaleness” are terms that attach patriarchal baggage to what would otherwise be just variations of sex characteristics. If you’re curious about this particular point, or don’t understand it, I’d recommend reading the Gender Accelerationist Manifesto, by Vikky Storm and Eme Flores; that explains the social construction of biological sex in further detail.
So what, then, makes someone a woman, a man, an anything else, if not biology, if not brain chemistry, if not an inherent feeling? Their word, before all. To declare a gender identity is to make it the truth. You dictate the terms of your own gender/sexuality/related identity, and whether they exist at all.
Gender, and by extension, the language of biological sex as divisions of reproductive labor are relatively new concepts to humanity! European colonialism caused the spread of the gender binary that we know and loathe. Through genocide, indigenous concepts of gender or gender expression around the world have been suppressed and all but replaced with this binary. Cultures worldwide have historically had a variety of ideas and norms in the general ballpark of “gender”, and I want to frequently emphasize that you can recognize the socially constructed nature of gender and sexuality without participating in the continual suppression of those cultures. It is true that gender isn’t “real” in the sense that it’s intangible and socially constructed, but it’s a mistake to think this makes anyone wrong about who they say they are, and a less forgivable mistake to twist this to say the same. Projecting the oppressive practices of gender, the European colonial gender binary, onto all practices of gender, that is, wanting to deny others their autonomy to practice gender using specifically the oppressive gender practice as justification – is culturally more in line with the European gender binary than those who have been harmed by it.
Gender identity as we have it is like a trust exercise. To tell you I am a [label] means I have to trust that you will not push any assumptions as to what that label means. As soon as you assume I mean something specific and definable, I’ve slipped away, you’ve lost me. If I say I’m a woman, that doesn’t tell you much about me other than that I perhaps exist in relation to a larger construct of womanhood. It tells you what I might be. I’m signaling something vague. Such labels are descriptive, not prescriptive, meaning here that you define the term for yourself.
I emphasize self-determination and autonomy before arbitrary definitions because these labels are personal and indefinable as a whole.
You can agree with everything I have said here thus far about gender and still believe trans people are who they say they are. I’m not here to take anyone’s gender. We have fought hard for our identities, have suffered so much trauma at the hands of cissexism and the gender binary, and so who would I be, other than a threat to autonomy, to say we should drop the labels entirely?
Gender Absurdism
So from here to where? I’m proposing the synthesis of absurdist philosophy and social constructivism particularly in regards to gender and sexuality: Gender Absurdism. I cannot define this new term without recognizing the inspiration it draws from gender nihilism, gender accelerationism, and various pieces of literature, such as:
Alyson Escalante’s Gender Nihilism: an Anti-Manifesto, as well as the authors followup piece, Beyond Negativity: What Comes After Gender Nihilism?
Kaspar the Friendly Geist’s Gender Egoism: On Ownness and Identity
Vikky Storm and Eme Flores’ The Gender Accelerationist Manifesto
If nihilism posits that there is no intrinsic meaning to the universe, absurdism says, “let’s keep going anyways”. Acknowledge a lack of intrinsic meaning, sure, but must it be seen as negative? Absurdism teaches us that we can acknowledge the truth, particularly the truth that there is no meaning to the universe, and still create our own meaning, while simultaneously acknowledging that it doesn’t exist in any objective or provable way. The absurdist emphasizes rebellion, rebellion against the Absurd through meaning-making.
Gender nihilism, as presented in the original piece as well as the author’s response, recognizes correctly that the attempts in the queer community to ontologize our identities still are founded in relation to the bigger power structures of the binary, patriarchy, cisheteronormativity, the division of reproductive labor, and so on. If we treat non-binary identity as a third gender, it still exists in relation to the binary, and thus legitimizes its coercion.
We are conditioned by the gender binary, it surrounds us. It is not natural, but its so violently enforced that so many are led to believe it is. Not only are we susceptible to the pressures to conform to it, but, susceptible to an implanted desire for categorization that subtly reinforces it. I recognize the difficulty in unfucking one’s own brain. I recognize the attachment to these labels, but still I urge others to, at the very least, reject the notion that we must make sense in their framework, that our terminology cannot contain multitudes. In order to push back against the reformist efforts that seek simply to expand our boxes, we must advocate for a communist future that abolishes the current state of things, being the capitalist system, white supremacy, cisheteropatriarchy and all the associated systems that called for the creation of the gender binary to begin with. Not only this, but we must call attention to the abstractions, plant seeds in the minds of those on the fence, make it very apparent, in our struggle against a violently gendered world, that the binary is a ticking time bomb on a certain path to destruction. Recognize with us, that the total abolition of capitalism and whiteness would mean the same for gender’s misuse as a tool to divide and conquer. After all, we cannot persuade the powers that be to loosen our restraints.
What I mean, then, when I propose Gender Absurdism, is the complete recognition of social constructivism at play, as well as a revolutionary kind of pride, based not in scrambling to justify ourselves by their terms, but in valuing the beauty in the fucking with identity, the breaking of the rules, the creation of a space outside the boxes, as opposed to trying to expand these boxes in search of comfort in assimilation.
I propose freedom through a very individual meaning-making. Rather than try to compound the entire history behind gender and sexuality identities into single universal definitions, embrace that multiple contradictory things are true at once. Your personal interpretation of woman, of man, of queer, of bisexual, of trans, of lesbian, of gay belongs to you. The very moment you try to define these terms for the world, you erase some portion of people under that label now or throughout history.
Gender Absurdism is the bridge between our tendencies to reject categorization and our tendencies to embrace it. We may continue with both, no need to disparage others for identifying with labels, and no need to require others to have them in the first place. We know that a prison with room to wander is still a prison.
Embrace the ambiguity of gender. Like a Gender Egoist, make gender your property. Like a Gender Nihilist, recognize the absurdity of gender. Like a Gender Accelerationist, we take note of the way the gender binary is flimsy, self-contradictory, and on a path towards self-destruction. As labels become comfortably complex, as the powers that be move to stop us and consolidate power, and as the binary is ultimately set aflame, Gender Absurdism can be the warmth of the heat that brings us well-deserved solace. Take pride in your rejection of their frameworks, which are as narrow as the truth is wide. Recognize like Dr. King that in society, there is a tension, a negative peace; order, but no justice. We must continue to creatively draw attention to that unrest so that it is increasingly unavoidable. The gender binary is one of the many prongs of our unrest. Abstractify it. Fuck it up. Disfigure the face of man and woman, reject the order of creation, and embrace the Absurd.
– zoe degenerate
https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-019-00677-x
https://libcom.org/library/gender-accelerationist-manifesto
https://libcom.org/library/gender-nihilism-anti-manifesto
https://medium.com/@alysonescalante/beyond-negativity-what-comes-after-gender-nihilism-bbd80a5fc05d
https://www.google.com/amp/s/spacegeist.wordpress.com/2018/03/14/gender-egoism-on-ownness-and-identity/amp/







